Quotes on Quotes on Quotes

Here are just some quotes that I pulled out of my quote books that seemed relevant to our class, and I figured this would be a good place to share them! Enjoy!(:

Oscar Wilde
"The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention."

"The heart was made to be broken."

"Never love anybody who treats you like your ordinary."

"You are a wonderful creation. You know more than you think you know, just as you know less than you want to know."

Kurt Vonnegut
"Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you'll look back and realize they were the big things."

"I still catch myself feeling sad about things that don't matter anymore."

Mark Vonnegut (Kurt Vonnegut's son)
" I was back to being polite, the well-tempered paranoid."

Relative to this class
"Literature adds to reality, it does not simply describe it. It enriches the necessary competencies that daily life requires and provides; and in this respect, it irrigates the deserts that our lives have already become." -C.S. Lewis

"Write something worth reading, or do something worth writing." -Benjamin Franklin

"Read books. Care about things. Get excited. Try not to be too down on yourself. Enjoy the ever present game of knowing." -Hank Green

"Life is a tragedy for those who feel and a comedy for those who think." -Horace Walpole

"Write hard and clear about what hurts." -Ernest Hemingway

"A room without books is like a body without a soul." -Marcus Tullius Cicero

"There was something calming in the reticence of all those books, their willingness to wait years, decades even, for the right reader to come along and pull them from their appointed slots. 'Take your time,' the books whispered to me in their dusty voices. 'We're not going anywhere.'" - Nicholas Carr, The Shallows

"There are two rules to success:
1. Never tell everything you know." -Roger H. Lincoln

"Time enjoyed wasting is not time wasted." -John Lennon

"To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong." -Joseph Chilton Pearce

"I've been making a list of things they don't teach you at school. They don't teach you how to love somebody. They don't teach you how to be famous. They don't teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don't teach you how to walk away from someone you don't love any longer. They don't teach you how to know what's going on in someone else's mind. They don't teach you what to say to someone who's dying. They don't teach you anything worth knowing." -Neil Gaiman

"I have always imagined that Paradise would be a kind of library." -Jorge Luis Borges

"Paper has more patience than people." -Anne Frank

"I've had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened." - Mark Twain

"Why do I write? It's not that I want people to think I am smart, or even that I am a good writer. I write because I want to end my loneliness. Books make people less lonely. That, before and after everything else, is what books do. They show us that conversations are possible across distances." -Jonathan Safran Foer

"There is no friend as loyal as a book." -Ernest Hemingway

"The only way you can write the truth is to assume that what you set down will never be read. Not by any other person, and not even by yourself at a later time. Otherwise you begin excusing yourself. You must see the writing as emerging like a long scroll of ink from the index finger or your right hand; you must see your left hand erasing it." -Margaret Atwood

"The trouble with fiction is that it makes too much sense. Reality never makes sense." -Aldous Huxley

"The more I read, the hungrier I become. Every book seemed promising, each page I turned offered an escapade, the allure of another world, other destinies, other dreams." -Tatiana de Rosnay

"If you don't like to read, you haven't found the right book." -J.K. Rowling

"I can't imagine living a life that didn't involve knowing the difference between too and to." -Ben Adams

"When I have a house of my own, I shall be miserable if I have not an excellent library." -Jane Austen

"A half-read book is a half-finished love affair." -David Mitchell

"We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering- these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love- these are what we stay alive for." -John Keating

"Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind." -Rudyard Kipling

"The difference between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug." -Mark Twain

"Try to learn to breathe deeply, really to taste food when you eat, and when you sleep, really to sleep. Try as much as possible to be wholly alive with all your might, and when you laugh, laugh like hell. And when you get angry, get good and angry. Try to be alive. You will be dead soon enough." -Ernest Hemingway

"Words do not express thoughts very well. They always become a little different  immediately after they are expressed, a little distorted, a little foolish." -Herman Hesse

"Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know." -Ernest Hemingway

"A library is a hospital for the mind." -Unknown

"You are the books you read, the films you watch, the music you listen to, the people you meet, the dreams you have, the conversations you engage in. You are what you take from these. You are the sound of the ocean, the breath of fresh air, the brightest light and the darkest corner. You are a collective of every experience you have had in your life. You are every single second of every single day. So drown yourself in a sea of knowledge and existence. Let the words run through your veins and let the colors fill your mind until there is nothing left to do but explode. There are no wrong answers. Inspiration is everything. Sit back, relax, and to take it all in. Now, you go out and create something." -Jac Vanek

Dazing Off

In placement of a conversation partner post, due to his early departure, I have written another to make up for it. My intention was to use "the view from your bedroom window" prompt, but it managed to transform itself along the way . I just wrote and went with where my head took it. I apologize for the rambling....

You know those times when you have something specific on your mind and just stare at something, or in a certain direction without actually looking at it? A song plays, or something is mentioned that sets this thought explosion off in your head and you are no longer there. Your body hasn't budged, but you have wandered way off in your head. No longer in your skin, but some place else entirely. "Lights are on, but no one is home" type of deal. This happens to me constantly.
I spend the majority of my time elsewhere, instead of where I physically am, if that makes any sense. Whether it is a memory, imagining what I should or shouldn't have done, and idea forming, or fantasizing about how I wish something will play out (realistically or not), my head is always in full swing. I probably look like a crazy person staring out (or more like at) the window, or, more embarrassingly, someone who I'm not actually looking at. Eyes are deadlocked, but sights aren't exactly registering. Then when I snap back to reality, they are give me this weird, semi-offended look due to my extended stare directed at them.
And then there are times when someone notices my distant gazing and asks what is wrong or what I'm thinking about. But once the spell is broken, those thoughts that felt so real and tangible just moments earlier have vanished and don't seem to matter much back in the real world. So I just form that usual, empty smile and simply reply, "oh nothing really," or "I'm just tired." As much as I would like to let it all out , I sometimes just have to keep the lid on, and allow it to remain bottled up.
Sometimes it is just best to keep certain thoughts in your head, because once you say them out loud they are released into the world where they can be judged, misinterpreted, and used in ways you feared they would be. They would no longer be safely yours It's always a nice feeling to know you have something that is only yours, that no one else can take. Even if it is tearing you up inside, you know it can't hurt anyone else.
Some nights I just wish I could shut my mind off. I reach a point where I am just tired of missing, longing, regretting, and wishing. I just want a break from fighting inside my head. I've always said that if I could shut my mind off for even five minutes, I would be at peace for a lifetime. My mind can be a hectic place. I overthink into things that were never meant to be interpreted further than what they actually were. I play things out when the scene was over where it was last left. Sometimes I just look for meaning where none exists, just because I want there to be some rhyme and reason for the inexplicable happenings in life. Maybe not everything requires meaning. Yes, I believe that everything happens for a reason, but that doesn't mean it is always intended for us to know the rational behind it. Maybe instead of wasting time attempting to decipher occurrences, we should just live, and realize that things will happen, whether we know why or not. I know I need to begin following this philosophy. Why should I keep wasting my precious thoughts and already lacking energy on things that I cannot change, and just appreciate the life I have where events are capable of happening, good or bad?
As crazy as our mind can be sometimes, we need to remember that we are stuck with it our whole lives, so we might as well use it right. Learn to enjoy its capabilities, because if we cannot find sanity within our own minds, there is no way we will survive in this chaotic world we live in.

One Last Hurrah

After a long week of studying, stressing, and eating way too much food, we have finally survived the bi-yearly struggle of finals. We are finally finished, and now are free to enjoy the next month of relaxation and no school-related responsibilities. Pure, sweet freedom. In order to celebrate this triumph, and as one final hurrah before heading our separate ways for break, my roommates and I decided to make a nice little trip to Chipotle to eat away any residual stress from finals, our usual coping mechanism, of course.

We were surprisingly very gracious towards each other at first, figuring that we might as well be nice to each other since we will be gone for a month, but that delusion lasted roughly a grand total of two minutes before the usual banter and lovely remarks at each other once again resumed. The meal, as always, consisted of us stuffing our faces while also cracking up at just about anything and everything. We are just such lovely ladies, full of manners and grace every time we sit down to a nice meal. Ha. Yeah, not a chance. Anyone who caught a glimpse in our direction soon regretted it, because we probably looked like a group of wild wolves that had finally come across its first prey in a few days. One could have assumed that we hadn't seen food for a week by the vigor we were scarfing our food down with. I must say, though, that those giant Chipotle burritos are tough to eat graciously.You try to eat one of those suckers without spilling a drop. I'll give you a dollar if you can. Anyways, the other two made their's disappear a little bit faster than I did, due to the inability for me to shut up at times, and so we sat there chatting a bit more as I finished up my over-sized dish.

Finally it was time for us to head out, along with having to say goodbye to one that was heading directly home. It was about a five minute scene of us hugging and appearing to be kind to each other for once, before someone smacked another in the back of the head, along with arguments of who was her favorite (obviously me) broke out. Then came the overly dramatic, fake crying goodbyes and all that jazz that the usual college girls do to each other. Loveyouuukissesskaybye. She eventually drove away, which was our queue to repetitively yell how much she was going to miss us. It was quite the sight. The two of us remaining were both running on very small amounts of sleep, and definitely delirium had kicked it. We started saying this one extremely random word that we thought was absolutely hilarious, and just about died laughing the entire ride back to campus. We were getting so creative, we thought, with the various ways we could use the word and just laughed harder and harder each time. I soon found myself bawling from laughing so hard, with streams of tears running down my face. It even reached a point of hysterical laugher/crying where I practically could not breathe. I know this sounds extremely dramatic, but I am almost positive I have never laughed so hard in my life. I must have been the lack of sleep and the relief that finals were finally over and that I could now completely relax, but whatever it was, it was ridiculous. My sides were completely split, my stomach ached like no other, and my face just hurt from the laughter, not to mention the fact that it looked like I had just gotten dumped by the love of my life with the amount of water running down my face. We had absolutely lost it, and it was fantastic.

We finally arrived back to campus, having semi-pulled ourselves back together, and had to say our final goodbyes as well. It would have been sadder had we not still been laughing like maniacs, but maybe that was for the best. I am so grateful for those two kiddos. I don't think I would have survived this week, or even this semester, without them. I have never laughed harder than I have with them, and it has been oh-so-necessary every time. I couldn't have imagined this semester coming to a close any other way.

So Long, Friend

Last week I met with Meshari for the last time. I didn't know until the end of our meeting that it was going  to be our last, because he was going back home the next day. I wish I would have known that at the beginning, because I had so many more questions to ask. I don't think I would have carried it out any differently, it is just something about last times of anything makes me feel like I need to make it important. Like there is some set rule that we must somehow make the final times something worth remembering, as if the other times alone were not worthy of memory. Maybe I'm just getting a little sentimental now, but I can't help it sometimes...

We met at Our Spot in Union Grounds, and I was feeling the pre-finals week stress, so naturally I purchased an ice cold pint of Blue Bell Pecan Pralines n' Cream ice cream to silence the anxiety for just a little bit. Meshari said he had a big dinner with his brothers later, so he refrained from eating. What a champ. We mainly talked about him having to take his brother to the hospital the week before (that caused him to have to miss one of our meetings; I suppose that is a reasonable excuse...). He had told me the week he had to make the impromptu trip that he believed his brother had the flu. He had texted me about this at the time, and as always trying to help even in situations where I know I am not at all needed, I tried to offer my two cents, not that I had a whole lot of experience with household illnesses. He said that his head was aching very badly and that he had stomach pains and was throwing up. I mean, I might not be a doctor or anything,  according to my calculations and spot-on diagnostic skills, I would say that his brother was indeed sick. And of course, I was right. At the time I suggested that he give his brother some Sprite or any form of lemon-lime soda to try to at least alleviate the stomach pains a little, and to maybe make him some chicken noodle soup or something of the sort, just because these were the things that my mom always did for us growing up. One thing I learned from that was if Campbell's can't fix a tummy ache, I don't know what can, and best of luck to ya! Meshari said he appreciated the advice and said that they didn't have either of those in the house... Well, at least I tried! He said that they were in the Emergency Room for a very long time, which we all know there is usually never anything "Emergency" about the ER... I told him that I had been there twice this semester so far, once for a friend from 5-7am, and another time for me spanning 11pm-2am and it still took forever even with us being the only patients in the area.... He was pretty confused as to why it takes so long in there, and I told him he wasn't alone in that bewilderment. The doctor finally told them that his brother indeed had the flu and gave him some medicine before they were on their way. He was again confused as to why they took so long to just say something as simple as that, and I told him that I wished I could help him... Being in clinicals in high school, I had the opportunity to shadow in our town ER, and I am well aware that there is usually no rush occurring in any part of that area, almost at any time of day. C'est la vie, I suppose!

We didn't have too much time to talk because he had to rush off to meet his brothers, but I did, as always, enjoyed getting to see him. I asked when we could meet for our last two times, and I was sadly informed that they were heading home the next day and that this would be our last meeting. It was pretty sad... I thanked him for being so generous with his story telling and patient with my lack or international knowledge, and I wished him luck with his future schooling. He told me that I was one of the nicest people he has met here, and that he really enjoyed being able to spend time with me and teach me about his country. He said that he hoped I could see Saudi Arabia one day, and that he will keep his promise to show me around if I ever go. What a sweetheart! We hugged it out before going our separate ways. I was really sad.): I am so glad that I had the opportunity to get to talk to such a great guy and learn so much that I would have otherwise missed out on knowing. I can only hope that I can meet more people as kind as he is, and maybe even one day visit Saudi Arabia and witness all that he had told me by a first hand account. So long friend, maybe one day we will meet again.

Sleep?

sleep [sleep]   verb, slept, sleep·ing, noun

verb (used without object)

1.      to take the rest afforded by a suspension of voluntary bodily functions and the natural suspension, complete, or partial, of consciousness; cease being awake. 

I decided to begin this post with the definition of the word “sleep” (courtesy of the oh-so-helpful dictionary.com), because I seem to have forgotten what it is. It is currently 3am during the week of finals, so I am quite certain that many students have also experienced this similar slight lapse in knowledge. To give you an idea of how distant I have been with this old friend, let me provide a brief summary of the week thus far. I awoke to my always pleasant alarm at 9 am Sunday morning, and began studying for the wretched organic chemistry, which I am pretty sure that I would feel more successful by going down to the zoo and having a nice wrestling match with the lions than I do in this class. I continued studying this abhorrent subject, stopping only to find happiness in food (meals were actually the only thing I had to look forward to all weekend) and to cry (which was even more enjoyable than studying), all the way up until I made the wintry trek over to SidRich Lecture Hall 2 to face the devil himself, at 11 am Monday morning. If I do my math correctly, I was up for about 26 hours at that point. I then remained perched in seat B-13 for a solid three hours questioning everything I ever thought I knew about life. After finally being released from the grasp of Satan himself (organic chemistry, not our professor; he’s actually a pleasant man), my delusional sense of relief of being done with that final was quickly knocked out of me by the bitter cold slapping me across the face as soon as I walked outside.

In zombie-like fashion, I dragged myself back to Sammy Hall to take a much needed nap so that I could at least semi-consciously study for nochem part two, our lab final which was the next morning. Being the social butterfly I only tend to be when procrastinating, I wandered around the hall talking to anyone and everyone for a while before taking a nap. The fact that I even stall before taking a nap astounds me. Finally, around 3 pm, I was reacquainted with my long lost friend, my bed, for a mid-afternoon siesta. Around 5 pm, per-request, I was pulled back into consciousness by my lovely roommates singing and jumping on me, with promises of food. Under any other circumstances I would have grumbled a few very kind words, politely asking them to let me sleep more (…….), but in this case, food.

After regaining at least a small percentage of sanity during our much needed trip to McCalister’s, I began the arduous task of trying to force myself to start studying… At this point my brain was practically kaput and decided to stop doing what I wanted it to, especially anything relating to ochem. Inattentiveness was through the roof, which says a lot for my already regularly scattered brain, and I my behaviors continually shifted from bouncing around to laying on some surface for any period of time. Even with the clearest mind I have difficulties formulating sentences correctly and interacting with others like a usual human being, so you can imagine the struggle I faced in the state I was currently in. Bless any poor soul who found me in their presence at any point within this time frame. I finally forced myself to sit down and begin looking at my study material. And looking I did. Looking was all I did. Did I process anything? Nope. Did I feel any more prepared after this than I did beforehand? Not a chance. This continued for a few hours before I did the most productive thing I did all night by going to bed. And by going to bed, I mean taking a nap during the time most people end their day before starting the next. This two hour nap was just a small break in my never ending day, lasting from 2 am to 4 am, before I woke up to remind myself again how fantastic finals were. So that added up to roughly 4 hours of sleep over a 43 hour period at this point…

I studied until I had to once again face the Texas snow (like that’s an actual term), along with reality, by lugging myself back over to lecture hall 2. This was only about an hour and a half of strongly disliking life, before meandering over to Scharbauer to take my Sociology final, of which I hadn’t even thought about opening my notes to study for. Luckily I had about half an hour before go time, so I had at least some time to crack down. I was torn between studying and celebrating being forever through with the death class, never having to think about organic chemistry ever again until possibly having to go all Breaking Bad if other life plans didn’t pan out (that was a joke…). The final took me about half an hour to take, and I was finally free from tests for the semester.

Finally having the opportunity to sleep, naturally, I didn’t. I was instantly energized after leaving the classroom, and decided to do all the things I haven’t been able to do throughout the week, except sleep. Granted, I was no more functional than a zombie, but for some reason I just didn’t want to sleep. I wanted to be in the presence of other people, but didn’t necessarily want to actually interact with them. It was a conundrum, but I was too tired to think too hard on it, so I just remained sunk in a lounge chair in the study lounge, headphones in and drowsy eyes set on the computer. I discovered how fun Buzzfeed was (thank goodness I did not discover that when I needed to be studying) and somehow three hours passed without me moving any more than was necessary to operate my computer. I definitely felt like a high achieving college student as my eyes burned from a combination of lack of sleep and from them being locked on a bright screen for hours. Around 5 pm (56 hours now?) I finally removed myself from my throne to go sleep. Just kidding, I didn’t go sleep. Got ya. My roommates and I had another wonderful feast, this time of the Chuy’s sort. Delirium had long since set in, and it became very difficult to tell what exactly was real and what was fabricated in my head… It was quite entertaining, let me tell ya. I applaud the people who put up with me at these times of insanity that I often fall to in my life. Bless them, every one.

     Upon returning to the dorm, I could have slept, but, you guessed it, I once again avoided contact with my inviting pillow. I continued partaking in much nothingness until around 5 am. I don’t know why this seemed like a good idea to me, but sleeping obviously didn’t. I then finally did crash. And boy, did I crash hard. I was once again awoken by my parental roommates later that day, for dinner at 6:30 pm. Whoops… I guess that is the low one reaches when they go 68 hours with only 4 hours of sleep…

I would say that I couldn’t believe that I reached that new low and went that long without sleeping, but, unlike any normal, functional human being, that was nothing new for me. All-nighters and two-hour sleepnaps became routine this semester. There was even one week similar to the one I just described, that spanned 80 sleepless hours. That one was way worse, and reached the point that my roommates had to literally force me to bed… Again, bless their kind, gracious, caring souls for putting up with me.

So moral of the story, sleep is good. Sleep is healthy. Not sleeping is not, and without it, you can go crazy. Your body and mind will stop working, and people will begin worrying about you. There are also chances that you may have sleep paralysis, which I did a couple of times. If you have not experienced this terror, just hope that you don’t, because it is scary… We are always told how important sleep is, and by being in a pre-med setting I have seen how that is scientifically accurate and have always stressed the importance of it to people around me. When it comes to taking care of myself though, I have lived life according to the “I’ll sleep when I’m dead mentality,” which seemed to be harmless up to this point. I now know perfectly well otherwise, as I have experienced many negative side effects of not resting. Of all things that I learned this semester, the importance of sleep was probably the biggest, which I definitely learned, first hand, by the lack of it. Over break I am going to get re-acquainted with the luxury of sleep, and will continue that practice through next semester as well. Much of my inability to function as a regular human being is already a lost cause, but at least now I know that I can avoid making that struggle worse by living off of synthetic sleep, and only using the real deal from now on. Who said you don’t learn anything in college? Go frogs.